Being free from influence that controls what we do
Is a promise weíve made to each other
Itís important to help, but I must stand alone
Please donít boss, please donít shout, please donít smother.
If I make a mistake I must fix it myself
But itís hard to resist the intrusion
Of a well-meaning act thatís intended to stop
Me from causing regrets or confusion.
When Iím in a place Iíve not been before
And Iím anxious about the upheaval
I feel in my heart or show on my face
Let me walk, on my own, strong not feeble.
It is tempting to spare the one that you love
The effects of a man-made disaster
But if I want to be at the top of my game
It is I who must learn how to master
The lessons of life - whatís expected of me
Even when ìon the wayî makes me weary
How else will I be independent and strong
Knowing how, standing firm, with you near me?
Whenever I manage to discard the ìscriptî
I depend on just for good measure
I reap the rewards of standing alone
That instills a profound sense of pleasure.
So let me keep moving ahead with my life
With your love and your prayers near to guide me
But when I fall down, let me pick myself up
Let me learn, let me try, walk beside me.
©Carole D. Bos